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Build a Positive Personality and high self esteem

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The power to make or break oneself is all within us, and we need to take ownership, and responsibility, on how we use that power, for charging ourselves with positive energy, or negative energy, because, the controls are with us. Do the good things you like doing more. Avoid whatever unpleasant experiences you have. Stop listening and watching bad things. It works every time. Good things you have learned from all those bad days of your life. This would firstly make your life easier. Also, it can cause you to feel good about your life and presence. Following ways to build a positive Personality Step 1: Accept Responsibility It's a very important step in life to build a positive behavior because when you take responsibility on your shoulder automatic your personality change like how to deal with other, control anger, how to take that responsibility smoothly means its a step to build a positive personality. Those people who don't take it the responsibility seriously they always sh

The importance of Attitude

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Attitude is a way of feeling or acting towards a situation, thing, or person. Attitude can be negative or positive it all depends on the way you carry. Attitude defines your behavior or the outlook of seeing things in your life. A positive attitude helps in having positive thoughts " Attitude defines your character in your life and decide how well we do." We should begin with a story that gives you some importance of attitude. There was a man who sells an air-ballon filled with helium gas. He had a ballon of different colors like pink, yellow, orange, black. Whenever his sales low, he released a balloon in the air, when the kids saw the balloon goes up they want one.  One day he sells a ballon suddenly his jacket stuck somewhere and then he turned around he saw a kid who asked " if you released that pink balloon will that also fly in the sky? " He answered tenderly " child it isn't the shade of the inflatable, it is the thing that inside that causes it to g

How to focus on your Goal

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Before starting the article I want to give you an overview of the Goal. Firstly what Goal denotes, we have to understand that first. Goal basically your aim, where you have to target your mind to achieve that success. Focus, focus, focus... It's not that easy to achieve your goals for these you have to do a lot of hard work to achieve it. Like in a football match you have to score a goal to win the match, for these, you have to do a lot of hard work, do planning makes strategies then you do a goal, but many times the ball not enter where you want to but you tried again and again.  Same in life you haven't achieved your goals at one time for this you have to try again and again, you fall but rise if you again fall again rise but never ever lose hope. One day you achieve it, just make your focus on your goals . How to Focus on your Goal I have seen many articles on this but it's helpful I don't think so. It's you, you are the only one who can help yourself to focus

How to make Tension or Stress free life

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Tension or Stress-free life It is not that easy to make Stress free life because in the recent world or you have to say in the modern era, there is a lot of tensions, more expectation more burden more tension which creates your life hell. If you lose a job or break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend which impacts your life very affective. In this stress how you make your life tension free , sounds difficult yeah. Everyone has its dream, different thinking but you have to make sure if you want you to live your life stress-free you have to do the following things: Firstly start with teenagers, I am not talking about kids because they already live their life stress-free. Let us come to the point...  For teenagers, Never lie to anybody especially with your closed one like your family, friends because, in the end, they helped you in any situation. Just be friendly to whom you trust, Why I am saying this to everyone, just because when I am a teenager I did many mistakes, you know experi

Importance of Mental Health

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Mental Health is the most important thing for everyone in today’s life. If you are not mentally fit then you will not feel happy in life. Mental fitness is defined as the state of well being, the sense of positivity, how we act, feel, and think.  Today, we know that most people suffering from mental illness , it’s just become a common problem that every second people is suffering from. The signs of mental illness are depression, anxiety, change in food and sleeping habits, social withdrawal, high anger, or many more.  If someone is mentally unstable then he/she will not able to do things right, they always remain in a state of confusion and always carries with them negative thoughts about any aspect. It is a must to be mentally fit and feel active to live a healthy life.  There is various way to keep yourself mentally fit like exercise daily at least 30mins, reading books, do your favorite things, spend time with your favorite peoples, have a healthy diet. In our surroundings, we

How to become successful in life

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What Success means to you! Firstly, we have to understand the meaning of success in our life because everyone has different stories, their different ideas, and mind setup, so we have to understand first and set the goals for achieving success. For me, Success is a state of mind. “ Success is a term that accomplishes an aim or purpose. ” If I am talking about myself, Success for me is being happy, satisfied with the life I live, staying away from people who let me down, and enjoying every part of my life whether it's good or bad, always take care of family member’s, and many more which make me happy in any kind of work is Success for me. Spread love not to hate and make your environment good which gives you a fragrance. Let’s come to the point... Learn how to be successful in life There are many ways to become successful in life but make sure you have to show your dedication and hard word. Identify your aim - You have to search for your aim, your primary aim. What you will achieve

How to be Happy with what you have in your life

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what is Happiness?? Happiness is a state of mind. If you decide you wanna be happy, you will be happy. Achievement isn't the way to happiness yet happiness is the way to progress. Happiness is the feeling of inner peace. It is the emotion of joy , well being, self-satisfaction. Different people feel happiness for a different reason. Some people find happiness in small things But other people have no satisfaction in little things to feel happy, they always want more to live and it’s a good thing to see a big dream or having high expectation from life and if you work hard for them then definitely u gonna achieve them. But in this process, we have to remain calm and be happy in the present. Having a big goal is a good thing but losing your happiness is never be a good idea. The first motive of our life should be is our happiness and peace and u get it in by leaving the present and by enjoying the things u have at that time.  It’s human nature when they achieve one thing they will

What is life and it's Reality😉

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  The presence of people and creatures. It is the progressing procedure of which everybody is a piece of. It's essentially the excursion of each and every individual who is a piece of this condition. Each and every being has its particular manner to carry on with a day to day existence. Life is about spread, love, joy, care, amicability, or numerous different feelings. In an amazing excursion, we see numerous stages and we manage them by putting forth a valiant effort. The day we brought into the world the battle of carrying on with life is begun. Like we figure out how to walk, how to talk. From our youth, we begin to change ourselves as per the earth wherein we live. In this journey, we deal with many things. The best thing that happened in this life is family and our beloved friends. These people always make our life easier to live and to deal with our problems. Life is all about to live in every moment with yourself and with your loved ones. Life is excessively perplexing and e

Learn to be Happy Alone and Enjoy Life!

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The first motive of our life is to live happily no matter what. At the end of the day, the only thing matters are our happiness. Some people are naturally happy alone they don’t need people to make them happy but for some people, it becomes a challenge to live solo. Some people like to being around with their loved ones otherwise they feel alone or depressed, they always need someone to talk. But building a good relationship with yourself is a must and you must learn how to enjoy our own company. We can't depend on others for our happiness.  Being comfortable with yourself is the way to being agreeable in the organization of others . The fear of being alone never goes away if you’re not happy to be alone with your thoughts, no matter how many people you surround yourself with. There’s no point running away from your fears and anxieties because, at some point, they will catch up to you. One thing you have to know is that being separated from everyone else is not the same as being fo

Background Checks!

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A background check is a procedure wherein an individual or an organization uses to check the foundation that the individual who guarantees to be is genuine or giving us bogus data. In this day and age, it turns into the need to check the foundation in light of the fact that there is numerous news where individuals utilize their phony personality to get something or accomplish something by illicit methods. The primary worry about this in self-security. We never realize what's the expectation of each individual. Is it true that he is correct or wrong?. For wellbeing reasons, we ought to go for personal investigation. It is possible that we go for an occupation or purchasing a house or getting affirmation in a school or different at different spots, each association initially get all the data about the person after that the other strategy follows. A representative record verification is very significant for a few reasons. Right off the bat, you need to know whether the planned repre

Lack of Education!!

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The Absence of training(lack of education) effects affects everybody, not just individuals who are under-instructed. Individuals who need instruction experience difficulty excelling throughout everyday life, have more awful wellbeing and are less fortunate than accomplished. Significant impacts of the absence of training include unexpected frailty, absence of a voice, shorter life expectancy, joblessness, misuse, and sex disparity. Neediness Is the greatest foe of training on each level. Helpless understudies succumb to medical problems and ways of life that block their capacity to contemplate or learn.  Education can help in the destruction of neediness, those in destitution must be advantage from training. Right instruction can lift individuals from destitution and can likewise improve their medical problems, monetary emergency, it can transform them. The reality neediness is both circumstances and logical results of the absence of access to instruction. Lack of education causes nu

How to stop Overthinking!!

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Overthinking became a common word in our life and many of us deal with this problem. Overthinking leads to mental illness. When we keep thinking about one situation then it makes our situation more complicated. Yes, we all deal with problems But instead of keeping thinking about that particular problem we should do more focus on finding the solution by having a positive attitude in our mind. If we have negative thoughts in our minds then we will not able to find the right solution and it will lead to overthinking and negativity. We always must have an optimistic attitude to deal with situations and have the confidence, yes, I am gonna fix it no matter what. " YOUR MIND IS YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOUR WORST ENEMY " Overthinking is usually a habit that has developed over time and so it is not something that we can just switch off overnight.  Do not sharpen your arrows only when you need to strike. If they are sharp, you can strike anytime you need to.      Everyone tries their le

One day life will Change🤔

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Things will change, just believe in yourself and one day life will change. Life word itself says lots of things. It tells the whole journey of yours. In this life, we experience our own ups and downs. Sometimes we feel like yeah we gonna hit this problem. But the other time we feel like damn it’s not gonna happen. I will not able to do this. We feel like it’s done and has no hopes. But it’s life sometimes we have to face a good time or other time we face problems, But in all the situations we have to remain optimistic.. It is always hard to start without having a good picture of what you do want to create. It depends on what you consider to be life-changing, but taking the time to see if you are on track with your life will help you see if you need to make changes, or continue doing what you are doing. Just remember one thing that others have it worse than you. You can’t change anything in one day. True transformation is a slow and consistent process. One thing you have to do to change

Journey or Destination!!!!!

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The Journey to every Destination starts with a small step and the Destination defines your Journey. So let's start the topic. What are Journey and Destination?  A journey according to dictionary term it's  " an act of traveling from one place to another " . Traveling defines your path in your life it would be a long or short journey and a dangerous one. The Road will not always be smooth, in fact throughout our travels. Destination  according to dictionary term it's " the place to which someone or something is going or being sent ". Destination defines your journey like life to death journey to the destination.  when I read the article about the journey and destination there only be one question I saw the most that Journey is most important than Destination???? Is it SOOO?????  I don't think so!!!!!!!!!!! How people can say again and again that journey is most important, but they don't know that destination defines their journey if there is no